Honey, I Shrunk the Solar System NASA
You have this if you have a Virgo or Taurus Moon in low degrees in your natal chart -- which you can run at Astrolabe.com ( click here & use arrow to go back ). And you've had it for awhile. I have been "cleaning house" of people that bring negativity into my life. I don't care if they are truly in a negative situation not of their own making or they are just negative by nature. I have stuff to do right now, and I believe I have the right to choose the energy I want to be around. I am not abandoning any of my friends. I have done all I can do for them.
I want to share with you an amazing resource. If you read my blog regularly, you already know that I use Secondary Progressions, A-Day-For-A-Year. And I'm a bit of a snob about that. I usually dismiss transits as not that important, because they don't cause events. However, they are excellent at describing your current state of mind.
I love the site Astrotheme ( click here & use arrow to go back ). And I get all my birthdays there. But they also have a free service where they send you your transits every day. Every day is too often, period. But it's handy, and if you don't look at it, it's always there when you want it. Be careful not to place too much emphasis on the Moon making aspects to the fast moving planets, Sun, Mercury, Moon, Venus and Mars. But the slow moving transiting planets are worthy of consideration and Astrotheme has very, very good definitions.
Here's theirs for Pluto trine Moon:
"You step back from your private life and your family sphere. With subtlety and almost without your knowing it, your attitudes are changing. Unknown values or preoccupations are suddenly highlighted. In short, you are shedding skin.
You are more clear-sighted and you understand the real stakes in your intimate life. This is a strange period, marked by slow transformations, not spectacular ones but deep and essential. You will become less vulnerable, less sensitive to small details that would have thrown you out of balance, not so long ago. You even reach a deep serenity that is more related to indifference than to letting-go. Nothing seems to hinder your will to avoid surrounding parasites.
The traps of this configuration? Some degree of isolation and an excessive distance from people whom yesterday you considered your "close friends."
I was wondering if I was doing the right thing, because by definition the people I am letting go are negative. And they are not going quietly. So this is not a great deal of fun. But after reading Astrotheme's definition, I am doing the right thing for me and my long term happiness. And this is something you should think about, too.