View post on imgur.com It's the new anthem for people that are involved in a narcissistic relationship. Selena Gomez' "Lose You to Love Me." Brilliant. If she wrote this song, then I know the dynamics of her relationship with Justin Bieber. This young girl did enough drugs to blow out her kidney. The pain. The unrelenting pain. Narcissists are toxic on a level that is hard to put into words. But if you've been there, you know. It's insidious. It's evil. You've never felt better and you'll never feel worse. And here's the kicker. It's not their fault. They were so damaged as children that this is their defense mechanism. It can't be fixed either. Anymore than you can "fix" a sociopath. It's forever. The cure for you is to leave. To remove yourself. There is nothing else. And yet, you can't stop thinking about them. They are so woven into your life, so intricately, you can't ever eliminate their influence entirely. But you can heal. "I needed to hate you to love me." Still...
#SELENAGOMEZ THE FOREST FOR THE TREES
#SELENAGOMEZ THE FOREST FOR THE TREES
#SELENAGOMEZ THE FOREST FOR THE TREES
View post on imgur.com It's the new anthem for people that are involved in a narcissistic relationship. Selena Gomez' "Lose You to Love Me." Brilliant. If she wrote this song, then I know the dynamics of her relationship with Justin Bieber. This young girl did enough drugs to blow out her kidney. The pain. The unrelenting pain. Narcissists are toxic on a level that is hard to put into words. But if you've been there, you know. It's insidious. It's evil. You've never felt better and you'll never feel worse. And here's the kicker. It's not their fault. They were so damaged as children that this is their defense mechanism. It can't be fixed either. Anymore than you can "fix" a sociopath. It's forever. The cure for you is to leave. To remove yourself. There is nothing else. And yet, you can't stop thinking about them. They are so woven into your life, so intricately, you can't ever eliminate their influence entirely. But you can heal. "I needed to hate you to love me." Still...